Ask for their opinions

Young people need to be surrounded by people who love, care for, appreciate and accept them.When we listen to our children, we validate that they are important to us, and we build their personal power and identity. You can be a positive presence in your family and community. When  young people feel supported and valued, research shows that they are more likely to succeed in school, exhibit leadership, value diversity and maintain good health. They are also more likely to  be protected from problem alcohol use or illicit drug use. For more information, visit the Search Institute www.search-institute.org (Search Institute, 2002).